Benjamin

He’s here!

Our son Benjamin was born on 11/01/11 weighing in at a healthy 8 lbs 7 oz. He’s two weeks old today and we are so in love with him!

I am feeling great and ready to get back to sewing and blogging after a long hiatus (September 15 was my last blog post!). Look for some baby boy quilts to appear here soon. :)

Summer Quilting

Summer is definitely not made for quilting – especially not a summer as hot as this one  has been. As I’m writing this, it’s nearly midnight and still 97 degrees outside:

And we’ve got another hot week coming up. I am thankful that almost 28 weeks into my pregnancy I still don’t have any swelling or major aches and pains because this would be a tough summer to be feeling unwell. Thank you, baby, for letting me feel almost normal [the growing belly is undeniably a bit awkward, but having a temporary beer belly is kind of fun. I definitely notice people giving me those sidelong "is she pregnant or fat" glances. Like tonight at dinner when my husband ordered a Cobb salad and I had a bleu cheese bacon burger with fries.:)]

Even though it is not quilting weather, I’m desperately trying to get some of my WIPs done in the 12 or so weeks I have until my life is no longer my own. While prettifying this new blog layout, I decided to rebuild my WIP list in the side bar and whoa, Nelly, it’s a big one. This is probably the first real WIP list I’ve ever made because it was not done from memory, but by actually pulling things out of boxes and drawers. There are 29 items on the list (not counting my embarrassingly overdue bee blocks). How did I get to this point? And knowing just how many things I have unfinished, I can still think of a half  a dozen more quilts that I would like to start. Never mind de-stashing and purging to make room for baby -  I’m going to need my own quilting house before the year is out at this rate.

For those of you who only work on one or two projects at a time, how do you do it? Is it self-control? Lack of hiding space? Other hobbies that keep you busy? Do I need to take up tennis or bridge so that I have less time to think about quilting? I know I’ll never be a one-project-at-a-time girl, but 29 WIPs is about 20 too many. It probably doesn’t help that my method for getting things done is to list all of my to-dos, prioritize them, and then never look at that list again.

I was at a retreat last weekend and that helped me jump start the process. I am making some progress. I have two bee blocks ready to mail, I basted two tops, quilted one last weekend, and I have another big one on my machine right this minute. I’m even trying a new technique:

It’s not as fast as stippling but I think I’ll speed up as I get more comfortable with the motion. At least that is what I keep telling myself.

It’s Been One of Those Weeks

This week my website was hacked (again!) and my car was damaged in a hit and run.  The hacking details are tedious and boring, but I am now blogging on a wordpress.com interface (instead of my own hosted site) so that I don’t have to worry about security anymore. Blogging is supposed to be fun, and dealing with a hack is not fun. Google had my URL blacklisted for most of the week, but now everything is up and running and okay. Many links are broken and photos are missing, but I should have all of that fixed in a week or two. If you visited my site in the last week, please run a virus and spyware check on your computer. You can download a free one from Microsoft.

So after dealing with that mess for 5 days, I was awakened at 5:00 am Friday morning by the police knocking on our door. Apparently someone hit our car and abandoned their car a few houses up the block. One of our neighbors called the police when they saw the abandoned car and the police were conscientious enough to check all cars parked on the street for damage. Police often get a bad rap but I have to say that my experience with them (though minimal) has always been positive. They had an accident investigator at our house making a report before they even woke us up. Sadly, my car is not drivable and had to be towed to the dealer for repairs. I am driving a rental for a couple of weeks, and my wonderful husband is dealing with all of the insurance and car repair issues. He literally spent all day Friday on the phone. The people that hit our car did end up coming by the house and giving us their info. They were a couple of college kids who were driving down to the lake near our house and got lost. They were genuinely shaken up by the accident, but thankfully not hurt. Everything will be fine in the end and I am not a superstitious person that believes bad things happen in threes so I am expecting only good things for a while. :)

I’ve been mired down in purging and organizing my sewing room because in a few short months it will be a sewing + baby room. I’ve gotta make some room for our little guy so a bit of de-stash is in order. Hopefully I can get some things listed in my Etsy shop this week. Meanwhile, I’ve started a new just-for-fun project because I needed some cheering up.

I am taking some of my Moda mini charm packs (charmlets?) and pairing them with a vivid pink to make 9-patch blocks. Then I’m going to quarter them and sew it all back together for a super scrappy quilt. (this one was my inspiration) I’ve got a combination of It’s a Hoot, Hullabaloo, Summer in the City, Central Park, and Buttercup. All of the colors are so happy together and it’s definitely cheering me up.

Baby Sewing

blue hippo

[fabric is Alexander Henry Monkey's Bizness - Little Farm in Blue]

This little hippo is a super easy project. I am definitely going to make at least one more of these for the baby – maybe in some fun polka dots. I would recommend enlarging the pattern at least 25%, if you make one of your own. The neck hole seam is really tight and mine is not entirely pucker-free. Pattern purchased here. It really is a simple pattern and sews together in less than an hour.

Moose thought this hippo was for him. He kept staring at it while I was taking photos, and he really wanted to play with – in fact, he couldn’t stay away:

moose and the hippo

His attitude is that pictures aren’t worth taking unless he’s in them. He’s pretty photogenic so I can’t say that he’s wrong. ;)

That little hippo is pretty much the only sewing I’ve done in the past few weeks. I had aspirations of signing up for the Finish It Up challenge on Meg’s blog. But the fact that they’re two weeks into it and I haven’t even made my WIP list yet doesn’t bode well for my success. I need to make my own “Baby is Coming, Get It Done Quick” challenge. I did pick the focus fabric for my Baltimore Album Quilt. I stared at those photos for two weeks and even went back to my fabric stash to see if I could come up with the absolute perfect fabric. And then I decided that I was overthinking it and I ordered 10 yards of my background fabric. So I think I’m committed. I will be working on block #1 this week. I don’t want to be the only one in class on Saturday who didn’t do her homework.

20 Weeks

20 weeks means that this baby is halfway done baking! I can’t believe it’s gone by so fast, and yet I’m a little scared that the next 20 weeks will go by even faster. I suddenly feel like I have a million things I want to check off my to-do list before this little boy arrives.  And even though it seemed like it was never going to happen, my belly is finally starting to show! I was wearing my regular jeans until two weeks ago so I’m pretty proud of this little pot belly.  (though if you ask my husband, he’ll say that I’m pushing it out in this photo)

20 weeks

The baby boy’s first quilt is well under way. I’m adding a linen border and then it will be ready to quilt this weekend. (I used this stack of fabric from Monaluna’s organic collection, Circa 60.)

baby's first quilt

My pieced curves are absolutely perfect, and though I’d like to take ALL of the credit, I can’t. Those perfect seams are courtesy of the amazing Curve Master foot. I heard about it from my friend Michelle and saw my friend Melanie use it to piece her king sized Single Girl quilt in a weekend at our last retreat. Every quilter must own this foot. No pinning, no squaring up. The only special tool you might require are some long tweezers to hold the ends of your fabric as you reach the end of the seam. I spent an couple of hours chain piecing the curves in this quilt and every single one came out perfect and I didn’t have to trim a thing. (Also recommended, the June Tailor Perfect Circles rotary templates. I bought mine at my LQS Quilt Asylum.)

Love, love, love the Curve Master! (the name sounds like an aerobics class, don’t you think?)

Sewing is a Victory

Thank you all so much for the kind words and congratulations about our baby boy. Each and every comment and email made me so happy to read.

Even well into my second trimester, the fatigue is not going away like I thought it would. It’s definitely not as extreme as the first trimester when I felt as if I were constantly under the influence of Benadryl, but it still makes me pretty much a couch potato. So the fact that I spent several hours sewing today is a victory. I made some good headway on a custom quilt and a throw quilt for our sofa. I’m making it my goal to sew for at least half an hour every day. I really have missed it so much.

Last week was the Earth Day challenge reveal for the Dallas MQG. My original plan of making quilt blocks from old cotton men’s shirts didn’t pan out. My mitered corners were a mess so I didn’t get past the first block. (Anyone know of a good tutorial for mitered corners?) I was saved by the fact that I’d ordered a vintage sheet kit from Jeni at In Color Order last week and it fit the reuse/recycle theme perfectly. I made a sweet little wreath that will probably hang in my sewing room, and will definitely come out at Easter.

I won’t call this wreath project a total success, though, since making it involved a near disaster. I made it Thursday afternoon. Today I came into my sewing room and discovered that I’d left my glue gun plugged in (and ON) since Thursday. There was still power to it and it was warm but thankfully its cheap electrical insides burned out at some point and it was not hot enough to burn down our house. That is definitely a crafting fail.

our boy

our boy

We are expecting a baby boy! The due date is November 3rd, just two days before my birthday. We are thrilled. Franky, I don’t think we could be more excited. We’ve been keeping it to ourselves for a long time now and I am so happy to be able to share the news.

Of course the first thing I did when we found out it is a boy was spend some time looking through my fabric stash for boy fabrics. I think my little stack of Circa 60 organic fabrics will make an adorable first quilt for our boy:

I’m feeling great and starting to get my energy back. There is a lot of sewing I’d like to get done before our little man makes his debut!

modern quilting

There is an interesting debate about modern quilting that is happening on several quilting blogs. I won’t summarize them, but here are some links for your own reading:

http://piecemealquilts.wordpress.com/
http://lavieenrosie.typepad.com/lavieenrosie/2011/03/dear-nancy.html
http://tallgrassprairiestudio.blogspot.com/2011/04/response-to-dumbing-down-of-quilting.htm
http://stitchindye.blogspot.com/2011/03/word-about-criticism.html
(If you know of others or have written about this subject on your blog, please feel free to add links in the comments.)

Some of those posts are general and some of them are about particular people. While I don’t like calling out individuals, I do think the comments from both parties are an important part of the modern quilting debate. And I should mention that I am a fan and blog subscriber of Stitch in Dye and Tallgrass Prairie Studio. I’m not really interested in passing judgement on what any of those ladies wrote, but I do want to share my thoughts because I was inspired by theirs.

The question of what makes quilting modern is particularly interesting to me because I am a relatively new quilter (3 year quiltiversary next month) and I am the president of a Modern Quilt Guild (holla, Dallas!). When I started the Dallas branch of the MQG, defining quilting in a little box as modern/art/traditional wasn’t something that even concerned me. I was more interested in meeting others who wanted to talk about quilts and fabric. I identified my aesthetic and style as most aligned with what was happening in modern quilting – the fabrics, the designers, the simple patterns and geometric shapes are what drew me into quilting – but I didn’t lay awake at night worrying about what made quilting modern.

But after my first dozen quilts, I found my tastes maturing. The super popular blogs that first drew me into quilting no longer appealed to me. I wanted more challenge, more innovation. I started to accept that patterns could be useful and sometimes flying by the seat of your pants just made you end up flat on your face. There is a point where modern quilting becomes just a series of squares floating in a background, and they all start to look the same. I mean, take a look at the completed quilts on the right-side of my blog. Talk about squaresville! 

Since I started the DMQG last February, my opinions on quilting have continued to change.  Becoming part of a real-life quilting community has been a very positive thing for me. I’ve learned a lot from the women in my guild and the shop owners and long-time quilters that I’ve met through the guild.

Some of those lessons:

The online quilting world is not the real world. Blog photos create the idea that quilters live dreamy aqua and pink lives in soft-focus. Quilts are always fluttering perfectly at the edge of a lake. Sewing rooms are filled with beautifully folded fabric stacks that teeter just so. No one lives like that. I love pretty pictures, and I love taking them, but I promise you this – my sewing room is a hot mess 80% of the time. Sewing is chaotic and messy. Go on a quilting retreat and you’ll see that a half dozen women can turn a perfectly clean empty room into a fabric-filled disaster in about 10 minutes.

Nothing is new. Some people are definitely innnovative with color and there are art quilts that are just that – art. But when it comes to sewing fabric together, it’s all pretty much been done before. There is a running joke among my quilty friends about inventing things. We’ll show each other a new technique or notion, and say “I invented that.” Some of us have even claimed to have invented the 1/4″ seam. This is all the result of another online quilting world fallacy – some bloggers think that they invented the string/spiderweb/flower basket/feathered star/cathedral window blocks they’re making. I’ve seen so many blog posts bemoaning “copying” and not “giving credit” because someone made a string quilt*** that looked like someone else’s. If someone thinks your work is pretty and wants to emulate it, that’s flattering, right? Of course, it’s nice if they tell you that, but at the same time…it’s a string quilt! How do you know they didn’t see one at a garage sale or in a Pottery Barn catalog and think it was the best thing since sliced bread? This competitive side of blogging is one of those cringe-inducing things for me. I think the rules are pretty simple – If you use someone’s pattern or tutorial to create your piece, then it’s nice and correct to credit them. But it’s not fair to assume everyone who sews 5″ squares together is copying your quilt made of 5″ squares. [And to those of you who have been blatantly ripped off, I don't mean you. There are bad, bad people who do copy others' work and steal their photos to sell stuff on Etsy. But those people are too busy pushing old ladies and kicking puppies to even read my little blog.]
(***I’m using the string quilt as an example because it was one of those hot trends and it’s a very simple block.)

There is room for everyone. The DMQG is full of women with a huge variety of skill sets, taste, experience, and motivation. My friend Michelle (who blogs at Tapestry Tree) is a perfect example. She’s been quilting for 10+ years and her own tastes have varied from super traditional to modern. In one year, she’s made this quilt and this one. Could they be more different? I think it’s important to surround yourself with people who are different from you  because that is how you learn and challenge yourself. I can honestly say that I learn something every time I interact with the women in my guild and I have forged friendships that I know will last a lifetime.

Some people use art and creativity and taste as a means to exclude others. If you are making clown quilts, but they think cat quilts are the hottest ticket in town, you’re pretty much a pariah to them. How silly is that? Unless they insist on making clown quilts for your house, why should it bother you if they applique clowns onto every fabric they can get their clown-happy hands on? This goes double for shop owners. If someone asks for a style of fabric that you don’t carry because it’s not your taste, is making a face at that person really good customer service? If you’ve experienced this kind of exclusionary behavior, just know that there are lots of groups out there that want to have you as a member and there are shop owners who will gladly order that possum fabric you’ve been lusting after.

There comes a point where critcism is just critcism. If you don’t like the quilt, stop looking at it. If you bought the book and were disappointed, return it. At the end of the day, quilts are just blankets. There. I said it. Most people sew for the pure enjoyment of sewing. They’re not trying to win ribbons, sell books, or impress fancy pants quilt connossieurs. If they only want to make square quilts forever, there is nothing wrong with that. How many melted clocks did Dali paint? (Answer: way too many) If you enjoy making perfect flying geese and your points always match, YAY! You should be happy and proud, but it’s not a reason to look down on the work other people do. My flying geese are spectacular but I don’t judge any of you. (JOKE). But seriously, I really think that the only value in a quilt is intrinsic. If enough people like it, that quilt can also have monetary value. To some people, Gee’s Bend quilts are amazing works of art. To other people (my dad) they are “all crooked and messed up. It looks like they just sewed a pile of crap together.”

Modern quilting is a movement, not a style.  Modern means “characteristic or expressive of recent times or the present; contemporary or up-to-date.”  So by definition, only what we’re doing right now is modern and the trendy colors, patterns, and fabrics are constantly changing. The modern quilts we’re making now will not be modern in 10 years. People will look at them and say, “That’s so 2010. Ew. Even Salvation Army couldn’t save that quilt.”  The idea of modern quilting may be just a passing trend. In 5 years, maybe Civil War quilts will be all the rage. Considering all of the “modern” fabric I’ve hoarded, this is my biggest fear. I have to use all of that up before it goes out of style. Oh, the pressure!

At the end of the day, all that matters is that you enjoy the process. Every single one of us can spot all of the flaws in our finished quilts, but the work you did to get there is the important part.

With [vintage] modern quilting love,

Back to Reality

The hubs and I just got back from a lovely 10 day vacation. My parents have a place on a lake in Alabama that is gorgeous and relaxing and always really hard to leave. I took my sewing machine but only sewed a single seam the entire week. We spent most of our days enjoying the sun, the water, and time with family. My husband and father also enjoyed a ridiculous amount of fishing. I think it’s the male equivalent of quilting. They talk about it constantly and obsess over their minnows and hooks, etc. They actually called me from a cell phone one day while they were out on the lake to get me to look up fishing techniques on the internet. I don’t think I was much help. ;)

So it’s back to reality now, and some fun spring sewing projects. Maybe spring isn’t the right word, since the last project I started was a Christmas quilt…but you know. If you’re in Dallas, the Dallas Modern Quilt Guild meets this Thursday at Bernina. We’d love to have you.

fabric overload

I’ve spent many hours over the last couple of weeks organizing my fabric stash.

stash  (mini bolts)

I’ve put my one yard plus pieces on mini bolts (really just pieces of acid free cardboard).  They look better and it’s definitely easier to see what I have (before pics here). But the mini bolts are flimsy and I find it hard to make the fabric stay straight and neat without using pins. It also takes up A LOT more space. All in all, I’m not sure I would recommend organizing your fabric like this. It definitely doesn’t work well for pieces that are under 3/4 of a yard. If I hadn’t invested so much time into all of this folding and color coding, I might just put it back the way it was.

There is an upside to all of this reorganizing, though.  I’ve finally started to see that I’m mere yards away from true hoarder** status. My husband was right!

pre-cuts

[pre-cuts]

fat quarters

[fat quarters]

I gave up fabric buying for Lent, but I think I could easily give it up for the next couple of years.  And probably should. The pressure of all of that unused fabric is kind of cramping my creative mojo.

**I know some of you are rolling your eyes about the hoarders reference. True, there are no mountains of garbage here, but it’s not all hospital corners.

hoarders

Excuse my dog’s…ummm, grooming. He didn’t realize he was being photographed. ;)

Even though I’m not thrilled with the results, I am glad to be finished with that time-consuming project so I can get back to actual sewing. I predict lots of pre-cut friendly quilts in my near future.